WINGS

  we all know that our society has some kind of stereotypical aspects of How a gentleman looks like or how to be a good person .They judge and  mark on every human beings  according to some norms. Most of our Indian parents follows these norms to raise their children to show off to the society that he is a good child. so most children are afraid to break these norms how what actually they are. If one person tried to breaks those rules and they figured out what he actually is ,then the society naturally gives names like douchebag , harum - scarum ,arrogant person etc.. like this. So this fear has affects so many peoples to live a life what they actually wants. They  built up their character , looks ,jobs not for them but for the society. when we started to live according to someone's like we partially died there. There is no value for it . no one is aware about what we wants or like,so we want to show off them from our comfort zone. we want live like what we want acco...

                                                                INNER BEAUTY   Beauty doesn't mean having a stunning face and body but the true beauty lies in your character, your confidence, and many more.  Your inner beauty never needs makeup.  It only needs a good heart filled with lots of love and care. Real beauty is about always being willing to assist anyone even if there is nothing in it for you except the pleasure of seeing the satisfaction in others. It represents goodwill and kindness.  The physical appearance may look appealing to you for some time but inner beauty is something that remains in the heart of others for a lifetime.  Unlike physical beauty, inner beauty is hard to find in someone.  Almost all the time, we notice a person’s physical appearance only for a moment, until the real...

The Moment You Start Believing Yourself ; Sky is the Limit...                 Born premature, friendless during the whole school days, called "the ugliest woman in the world", in her sweet seventeen,people across the world commenting "kill yourself"...what else more should a girl in her youth, hear, to be broken up and end her life?       But the moment Lizzie realized the fact that nobody in this world are created, by God by mistake, but for a unique purpose, her life started changing....the journey from "the most ugliest woman" to "one of the most beautiful and powerful soul ".        This life is a test and trial. Life will be hard, there will be turmoils, but that will only make us stronger. When we have these hardships, trust the fact that the one who allote these to our life, have given us the strength to face it. Trust in that power, and believe, love and be kind to yourself...the moment you do it;sky is t...

   How Others See You Isn’t Important, How You See Yourself Means Everythin  You cannot control who will like you, who will vilify you, who will speak kindly of you, who will judge you, who will love you, who will treat you unfairly, who will support you, who will spread lies about you, or who will be your biggest fan. We literally cannot control how any other person is going to feel, think, or treat us. When we come to recognize that as an actual fact, we can turn our focus to the only thing in this life that we actually can control, and that is how we feel about ourselves. Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.”

                                                           WHO AM I?    (Nithin  Sebastian Sociology) O What we need to look for, not the shortcomings of life, but the goodness is that God can redeem us from whatever condition we are in.  Our life begins when we realize who I am and what my potential is. Those who are found in this way will succeed in life. You and I have come not to your shortcomings but your abilities. When we get to it, the meaning of life and the ridicule of others become nothing to us. Reach out to what you and I are busy with. That's where the question of who I am comes from. From that moment on, our lives have been a success. There are very few people who have found out who I am. You can find success by looking at the talents without looking at the shortcomings. May you succeed much.

                       "  How others see you is not important. How you see                            yourself means everything" A session of Lizzie Velasquez in Sabu father made me think a lot about human mind and their perspectives and its impacts. We all know that presently, all of us are living in a world where one is judged completely by their external appearances, even from our home, by our relatives and closest acquaintances . Starting from helping us  to look prettier, to teaching us how to behave accordingly, how to treat people ,and the list goes on and we keep on learning all these from different people and places. But, we all are kept unaware of the most important process through out our lives. No ones speaks about this ,no one seems this as a necessity . And this greatest exploration that you need to do through out ones life's is called...

                                   ❤  Beauty doesn’t have to be superficial.                                                                       -Sanjana (sociology) It’s a good thing for everyone when we move past superficial ideas of beauty. It makes the world a more interesting and diverse place, and it means we can relieve some of the tension that goes along with high expectations in our society . Some of us teach ourselves and our children to love the superficial outer; our looks, hair, skin, clothes rather than the greater beauty that resides within whereas it is that inner beauty that really defines you and who you truly are as a person . The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, kn...

  How Others See You Isn't Important , How  You See  Yourself Means Everything When we come to know ourselves, we tend to understand happiness. It is always within us, the perspective of the reflection about us is in the action, and our deeds. This perspective is our own true identity. We have to accept and place ourselves as we are. This creates confidence in our own identity to understand the need of placing ourselves in every situation. Most people tend to believe in others. We should believe in ourselves and place the most important thing we need to focus on. Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you. No one can place you to their choice, if so, we are falling for them. Rise for ourselves.

 " Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.''- Lao Tzun When boiling milk it's fine until you keep stirring it well but if u leave milk on fire even for a minute without stirrings it creates trouble, so is love. It should always be kept in motion u shoud feel being loved and also youu should love. absence of any would bring pain. On certain instances we'd thrive for someone to love as in some we'd be in search to find someone to love. Its common for all and a perfect solution to this doesn't exist. Its normal sometimes you'd feel alone even in a croud. So the best way we have is to Love ourselves. Be proud of what elwe are. Reminding ourselves that we are the most elegant, the most powerful and tue most luckiest.No matter what others think of us, now matter how they view us always listen to your heart first. Thats what matters because no one on this earth knows you better than you and no one wo...

  You cannot control who will like you, who will vilify you, who will speak kindly of you, who will judge you, who will love you, who will treat you unfairly, who will support you, who will spread lies about you, or who will be your biggest fan. We literally cannot control how any other person is going to feel, think, or treat us. When we come to recognize that as an actual fact, we can turn our focus to the only thing in this life that we actually can control, and that is how we feel about ourselves . everyone is unique in their on way and god has created everyone beautiful. It doesn’t matter whatever other says or thinks about you but it does matter what you says or think about you, as it determines your quality of life. Just always get driven by your inner guidance system and rise above negative voices coming from external crowd    Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.

     "If you look at what you have in life, you'll always have more. If you look at what you don't have in life, you'll never have enough."                                 - Oprah Winfrey. Life is not about proving anyone wrong. Life is about proving yourself right. Life isn't about comparing yourself to others. Let everyone else be exactly as they are while you focus on being the best as you. Your life is not defined by circumstances. Your life is not defined by what does or does not happen to you. It is defined by how you reach to what happens to you. How you choose to react to the circumstances and events that arrive in your life. It's helpful to remember challenge are just tests. Hard Times are test and character builders. Never lose you spirit because it is in our greatest challenge that our greatest strength is formed. That is when our character shines after the storm.  ...

 In this society we came across many people who are unaware about their talents and possibilities .They just kept  blaming themselves  for all the bad or unlucky things which happened around them. In contrary to this if we make our negatives as our stepping stones then we can achieve success in our life .Today we came across a famous personality Lizzie Velasquez who came out with flying colours when she realized her limitations can be her stepping stone in life and she never thought what others think about her and that  was her way to success  .So You cannot control who will like you, who will speak kindly of you, who will judge you, who will love you, who will support you, or who will be your biggest fan. We literally cannot control how any other person is going to feel, think, or treat us. When we come to recognize that as an actual fact, we can turn our focus to the only thing in this life that we actually can control, and that is how we feel about ourselves....

FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF,  FIRST SECRET OF HAPPINESS   You don’t go to bed a night and wake up next morning being super confident. Do you? If someone can do that he can't be what we call a ‘HUMAN’. I didn’t actually know about all my strengths until I myself started thinking about me. Not because I had only thought of my weaknesses but just because others never started thinking of my strengths. My confidence. It is not rooted in the thoughts of others. It just comes from realizing the prettiness and inaccuracy of other people’s negative views of you and then IGNORING them. In fact nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. Familiar with the term introspection? I’m sure you are. So here comes the most important question. Have you ever done it to yourself? Have you ever tried to discover yourself? Or have you always let other people discover you? What we all do is listen to the hustling noise of others and try to change ourselves to such a way that it fits the...

                                              DONNA ROBIN                                                    I.B.A.SOCIOLOGY   How Others see you is not important. How you see yourself means everything. We live in a society where  many kind of people live together. Some people may criticise you while others flatter you. Some may tease you while others love you. Some may kind to you while others  cruel to you. Never bother about others. We should have a critical thinking about ourselves. we should be the judge of our actions. Do as per your conscience. Don't give more importance  to others. We should have an aim in our life. We should have a perspective about our life. We should achieve what we want to be. Don't let others to i...

𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐮𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞.𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐝 , 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐫𝐩𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞 .𝐖𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐋𝐢zzie 𝐕𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐫 , 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐝 .𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲,𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞,𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢...

  We people always try to imitate others without knowing our talents and possibilities .Most of  of us are looking  at our own limitations but never think out of the box of limitation if we do so our possibilities and life will be an inspiring one to others. Today we came across an inspiring personality Lizzie Velasquez who came out from her limitation to a life which gave happiness and  aspiration to many people. It  doesn’t matter whatever other says or thinks about you but it does matter what you says or think about you, as it determines your quality of life. Just always get driven by your inner guidance system and rise above negative voices coming from external crowd. Actually you are blessed divine conscious being in the form of human, so be grateful, love yourself and live your life with purpose in the light of love, happiness, compassion and peace. So always keep the word ''HOW OTHERS SEE YOU IS NOT IMPORTANT .HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF MEANS EVERYTHING''. This...

                                     Every one has something that they are insecure about. But some people will leave the insecurities behind and move on. While others will cling to their insecurities and face depression. When you are hit by any insecurities you should talk yourself out of it. Don't mind what others think about you. You don't have to prove yourself to others. You can't change who you are, but you can love how you are. Don't be depressed about what you don't have, be happy about the treasures you have. Also don't compare yourself with others. Because each person is unique. So accept your flaws and move on.            " I need to be smarter / skinnier / bolder / more talented / more beautiful / more talkative /  faster / slower / have more friends / better in some way."                 " But you are ...

 "Beauty is the illumination of your soul" Physical appearance is not something on which a person should be judged or criticized . Everyone are destined to look unique. Still people are being blamed for their looks. Lizzie velasquez is a great personality who was bullied and tortured because of her looks . But she didn't decide to give up on her life instead she decided to fight back her insecurities. She believed in her , she knew her capabilities , she knew her uniqueness and that's how she became one of the most inspirational woman. We too are judged based on our physical appearance. Physical appearance to be honest does not define beauty. It's the  soul we possess that makes us beautiful. Believe in yourself and don't let others control your life . You are a miracle ; you must know your worth and must prove it to the world which doesn't always have your back.

  The right judgement  'A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks he becomes.'                                         - Mahatma Gandhi.  Around 3 decades ago a brave heart was born into this world. She was born thinking the world would be the same for everyone, but it was not so as time passed. She was engulfed by the treacherous eyes of the human kind who was used to the normal standards of beauty and appearance.  These eyes could not take into heart how beautiful her inner self was. They saw her to be an alien who was lost in human world.  She was vulnerable to the harsh words which could even kill her, but as the saying says 'a man can be destroyed but not defeated '. The vulnerability of human world ignited her inner spirit to fight back against th dark shade through the light of her own. That is when Lizzie Velasquez was actually born into thi...

  In a world that is becoming more and more superficial with each passing day, people forget to appreciate all the things they've been blessed with. We are all special in our own way, as hard as it might be to believe sometimes. People have different standards of beauty, and just because you do not fit some doesn't mean you are worthless. We're human, we tend to have a liking for the outwardly beautiful, but in the long run the inwardly beautiful tend to impress us the most. In this highly competitive world, we should focus more on honing our skills and inborn talents than being insecure about our supposed flaws. In the Oscar winning movie "Beauty and the Beast", the wise and beautiful Belle does not spare a glance at the rich and handsome Gaston, but falls for the intellectual and kind Beast instead. One of the most memorable quotes from the movie is "Beauty is found within", which is very apt for the subject at hand. Evil and cruelty are thorns in one...

  As usual today's  class was also intresting and inspiring . Today I came to know about a new personality named Lizie Velasquez. Her story gave us a message that the actual beauty of life is inside us. We know that in present day world everybody is trying all possible things to increase their beauty. Everyone is much worried about their colour of the skin,beauty in face so and so. But through Lizie we understood that beauty lies somewhere inside you. Actually,the confidence in eyes describes the real beauty of you. So don't be be worried about your facial beauty in your aim to achieve greatness in life.

 The only thing that matters about you is your efforts and whether you enjoy your life. Its rightly said never judge a book by its cover. Your physical appearance or your disabilities shouldn't bother you anymore. Nobody is born ugly. We're just born in a judgmental society. There might be certain norms regarding our body colour, body weight, height ,way of speaking etc. You needn't care about them. Stop evaluating yourself according to standards set by others. Just live your life.  Why should you be ashamed of your that one trait ? Is it because someone said it's bad ? If yes, just know that their opinions shouldn't affect your life. Show them what you are capable of. Everything about you, including that trait/s you consider as a defect is your unique feature. All the scars from your life make up your true self. Stop hating yourself for what you don't have, and prove that you can succeed even with that deficiency. If you want to love others, you should love an...

        Just Fly… . ‘How others see you is not important, how you see yourself means everything’. I think that how you see yourself truly matters in your life. I would say that don't wait for opportunity, we need to create it. don't be afraid of failures we can overcome, but fear when we remain at the same level. If you see yourself as a failure, you cannot achieve in your life. 'It is hard to fly when something is weighing you down'. It may be our parents, relatives, friends, or may be our fear, guilt, and so on. But we need to know that, it is our life we need to fly. I would say that just take the first step then not turn back and go and become your dream. Thank you….

 I have very much inspired by today's class as we talked about lizzie Velasquez. She had inspired me a lot. Because l was sad about the physical appearance without any reason I used to compare myself to others whether I have the hair her, noise her, etc.. It will be better than with now I have. But realise that without the thing that I feel a defect nobody in a crowd would identify me. And it is identification mark that God give to us. Each person is good in his own way and unique. Nobody In the world is perfect. I personally known one person who have some skin disease from her birth. But she is good artist and she had got appreciated by many of the great personality and today our place is known in her name with whom people feel comfortable to sit beside. That defect make her unique. The most beautiful thing about the person isn't the look but heart and personality. Everybody has their own beauty. The time we feel our is when we see a person who less beautiful than us. We have ...

  WHO AM I       In our life people makes it as a passion that to look others ,compared to them,and judging with theirs qualities abilities etc. The first thing that we fixed in our mind is    iam the beautiful,iam the best. God made everyone with his beauty. We are unique. Each person has his on duties to do in the world. Each one is benefitted to that. So we try to understand our qualities and built it in the highest level.                  Judging and commenting others is not a good quality. We have no right to that. And the most important is we never hear the opinions of others about ourself. It is negative and useless ,leave it,never mind that. Everyone see a person and judging his character in different way. They are not able to commenting on others. So we hear what our heart says. Only we can understand our potential. Don't spoil our life,because of someone's review. How others see our life is not importan...

   ' How others see you is not important , how you see yourself means everything'. This is truly an inspirational sentence. You should be able to love yourself. Ignore what others say about you or think about you ; just be you and accept what you are. We all have great talents in us . Don't misjudge ourselves worthless, one way or other we will be worthy in this world. We may not be white,may not have good voice or may not be rich but what we want to gather is the courage to face others bullies .                 The world throws their ridiculous words on you as fireballs because they are afraid of your talents. They are doing so to destroy your confidence for their own good . So think yourselves as a Superman .            By Joyal Gijo         20UMAT3708        '

                                          Confidence is like "show up in every single moment like                                                                    you're meant to be there"                                                  Self confidence is the most important quality that one should possess. It is the first and most important step to success. There will be a lot of people around us who will say that you won't be able to do that or do this. But the one who must show them that you can is you. For that, the first and foremost step is to have self confidence. Even if the whole wor...

Most of us have a laid back attitude when it comes to painting a picture about modern beauty.White skin, long hair, wide eyes and so on.If these things were a criterion for the life success,talent and fame,the world would not know the people like Lizzie Velasquez,Laxmi Agarwal etc.That's where we need to think about what the true definition of beauty is and what factors led them to success in their life. Everyone who has succeeded in life has recognized their shortcomings and acknowledged it.They were mentally strong enough not to be discouraged by the ridicule of others.They realized that they had a personality beyond what they could see in the mirror.Their life story teaches us that it is not the external beauty but the internal beauty and mental strength that matters.Let others see us anyway.Don't care.We should give priority to recognize ourselves first.We must strive to succeed with our abilities and willpower.If we are not ready to give up in front of the fate and weaknes...

Our dreams should be the most important thing in our life. Everyone around us will critisice what we do and what we are but that doesn't stop us from doing what we like. We don't bother about what others think and what they say . Be a warrior, fight for what you believe in and never, ever hold back. Do not give up when you find obstacles. Go confidently in the direction of our dreams. Believe in yourself, forget about what others think . Don't stop finding success until you make yourself proud.  Thank you.                           By,                                   Rohith Jacob Abraham                                  Roll no: 20UMAT3716                               ...

                   DECIDE  YOUR'SELF '                Nowadays teenagers of our age commits suicide when others say something about them.Our life is not ment to be judged by others. If someone complaints about your physical appearance or any other characteristics, don't be depressed of it. Don't think how others think of you. We are all born for a purpose. We will have to  fight the hardest battle. Don't worry about your weaknesses. Everyone is born with specialities. Don't compare yourself with others . Only think about your strengths. Be happy with what you have.            Happiness lies in ourselves. If you are thinking that you are not good enough, just think of others who are happily living with what they have. We should lead a life which is useful to others. I am sure that leading such a life will bring us happiness. Suicides are not the answer to othe...

 In our life there are many problems. All people are not perfect by born. But we can make them perfect by life. So today this is the topic. BE YOURSELF.We know that we have many problems. Someone have the ability of singing, some one have the ability of dancing, speaking, writing etc. But somebody will be suffering for the abilities. That's not a problem. The problem is that you don't try for the abilities. Or in our mind there is a thought of ourselves. That is iam not perfect and I can't do anything perfectly.. But dear friends, please come out from your comfort zone.                         You can decide who are you. Be yourself. If you can think that you are the most beautiful person in world definitely you can reach that position one day. So try for that big day. Don't walk back. Walk forward confidently. Your strong decision make you win one day. The public are not the person who decide you are. You are the per...

  SELF-LOVE IS NOT SELFISH, IT IS ESSENTIAL                      Remember, no one is perfect.But everyone is unique in their own ways.So, never compare yourself with others.It is what you think about yourself that matters.Because, you become what you think.                      How others see you is not important, how you see yourself means everything.In life, some people would disrespect you or treat you bad.It doesn't mean that you are worthless.It is they who do not understand your worth.But there would be some people who really understands it.Just focus on them.Don't focus on the people who don't.Love yourself first.Once you have accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you.Self-love is not selfish, it is essential. SETHULEKSHMI.S BA SOCIOLOGY 20USOC3611

           LO VE YOURSE LF A person should not be judged using his or her outer beauty. It is not necessary that person who is great, perfect and kind inside should be beautiful outside. Inner beauty defines a person. Many are scared to do things that they love to do because they are scared that they would be teased due to their appearance. We have to overcome these teasings and should be a role model to others. Insipiring others helps others as well as yourself. Loving yourself is the most important thing of one’s life. We have to be happy about what we have.        When we complain to our parents about small problems with our appearance, we should think about the great survivors like Lizzie Velasquez, Laxmi Agarwal etc...They showed to world that no matter what others say, believing and loving yourself can solve all the problems in our life and we can show others how we overcame all our bad situations. In o...

                                       "Be aware ,you're rare" But what we usually do is beware.we're always worried of what others think of us , what others  see in us.Does that really matters? If we have a good 'self' to appreciate ourselves we will never meet with such as inferiority complexes. Also no one is of no use .Everyone is brought to this world by the god almighty with particular purposes.we can't leave here without finishing it.Like the famous motivator lizzie velasquez that we came across to know in today's class. When the defaming news about her was circulating ,she could've just sit their and welcome the next set of criticisms but instead she fought back against it which might be one of gods purpose for her.She just ignored the false and accepted the truth that she is beautiful in her own way.We all are beautiful in our own way and the external beauty is for the eyes ...

How Others see you Isn't Impotant, How  you see yourself  means everything you cannot control  who will speak kindly of you, who will judge you who will love you, who will treat you unfairly, who will support you who will spread lies about you,or who will be your biggest fan.             How Others see you is not important.How you see yourself means everything. 

  YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY (Merlin Chacko,I BA Sociology) KNOWING YOURSELF IS THE BEGINNING OF ALL WISDOM   - ARISTOTLE Most of the people are living to satisfy others eyes not their heart. People are living according to what others says and wish about them. By this we are not able to take our own decision. People are trusting others to know what they are and how they are. Others look at our external life. We compare ourself with others and complain what we don't have. We are trying to imitate and impress others. This will not help us to find out and improve our real talents and qualities, instead it will frail you. Everyone are unique in this world. We should try to enjoy each and every moments in our life with what we have. First, what we should do is to RESPECT OURSELF. We should try to find out our talents, skills, capabilities etc and develop it. We should believe in ourself.  God gifted us a good life. When we look around us ,we can see physically chal...

All are beautiful. Everyone has their own unique quality. And when we start to realise that and begins to love ourself, our inner beauty and confidence starts to glow. physical appearance doesn't matter. What matter the most is character and the love and respect we show to others. But to love other we should fist love ourself. If you don't love yourself nobody will. Not only that you won't be good at loving anyone else. Loving starts with ourself.                                        - Wayne dyer   If we all have been same, won't be it boring. We  are all born different so that we can stand apart. But not all of take that in a positive way. It may be because of our own insecurities or maybe others makes us feel that way. Others may discourage you, humiliate you. And we may start to compare what we don't have with others. Stop doing this. What they have, maybe we won't have but...

  How Others See You Isn't Important , How  You See  Yourself Means Everything” we all know that our society has some kind of stereotypical aspects of How a gentleman looks like or how to be a good person .They judge and  mark on every human beings  according to some norms. Most of our Indian parents follows these norms to raise their children to show off to the society that he is a good child. so most children are afraid to break these norms how what actually they are. If one person tried to breaks those rules and they figured out what he actually is ,then the society naturally gives names like douchebag , harum - scarum ,arrogant person etc.. like this. So this fear has affects so many peoples to live a life what they actually wants. They  built up their character , looks ,jobs not for them but for the society. when we started to live according to someone's like we partially died there. There is no value for it . no one is aware about what we wants or lik...

                         INNER STRENGTH ,  this two words are not merely a word but it is some thing which give us strength to live in this world . Many people loss their confidence because of bad skin and face . But  the main thing that we want to understand is that outer beauty will fade with time . the only thing that persisted in life is our inner strength or beauty. One person with fair beauty and lack inner strength will fall in the challenges . But one with inner beauty or strength never fell down . They always move forward and encounter every challenges head on .                     Our appearance not decide our talent or strength . The strength in our mind and our hard work will decide what will be the future . 

                  LOVE YOURSELF OR       THE ART OF SELF-ACCEPTANCE                                     - Amal M Rajan                     To love yourself means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect, a positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance.                 Needless to say, it does not mean being arrogant, concieted or thinking that you are better than anyone else. It means having a healthy regard for yourself knowing that you are a worthy human being.                   It is important to remind ourselves that no one is perfect. Everything created in this world is not comple...