""You" matters - By Athiralakshmi

          

           "  How others see you is not important. How you see 

                          yourself means everything"

A session of Lizzie Velasquez in Sabu father made me think a lot about human mind and their perspectives and its impacts. We all know that presently, all of us are living in a world where one is judged completely by their external appearances, even from our home, by our relatives and closest acquaintances . Starting from helping us  to look prettier, to teaching us how to behave accordingly, how to treat people ,and the list goes on and we keep on learning all these from different people and places. But, we all are kept unaware of the most important process through out our lives. No ones speaks about this ,no one seems this as a necessity . And this greatest exploration that you need to do through out ones life's is called  "YOU".

                                                Everyone in the world is indeed beautiful. No matter whether you are born tall/short, your skin tone is dark/ brown, has long hair or short , or let the comparison be anything , being yourself is very important. Because whoever judges you with these doesn't knows you and the one's who knows you, would never make make one. If you closely examine world known personalities, who had immensely contributed for human welfare or had become a source of inspiration, most of them was born with some deficit. No one believed that they could live with ease, happiness and healthy and they would soon become a burden for many. But most of them proved them wrong and made miraculous contributions which most of the intelligent people who they were compared with couldn't . And the reason they were able to do so is , "they loved themselves and had faith that only they could do this". All their lives, when taken as an example, has something in common, before you want to change the world, you need to change the way you think about yourself".  

  Remember, the only person who  can judge the real you is yourself. So always make enormous efforts to know yourself and make the best perception about yourself because sometimes, "perception becomes reality."