Love Yourself or The Art of Self-Acceptance(Amal M Rajan)

                 LOVE YOURSELF OR

     THE ART OF SELF-ACCEPTANCE 

                                   -Amal M Rajan  


                 To love yourself means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect, a positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance. 

               Needless to say, it does not mean being arrogant, concieted or thinking that you are better than anyone else. It means having a healthy regard for yourself knowing that you are a worthy human being. 

                 It is important to remind ourselves that no one is perfect. Everything created in this world is not completely perfect, we all are incomplete. But we should focus on our talents, we have to trust ourself, we should feel we are worthy. Don't focus on what other says. Focus on our goals, even our parents have not right to change our destiny. We all have strengths and weakness and we certainly possess the resources to work on improving ourselves.

                 We all are unique and has specific talents and ability to offer. No two men are identical in everything. All of us have our own uniqueness. You don't want to bother on what you don't have or where you belong to, it may be money, talent, caste, colour or else anything. You have to accept yourself. In order to appreciate yourself it is up to you to discover what makes you unique and to further develop those talents. We have a responsibility to ourselves to do so.

                  You cannot sit around and wait for approval from others. Work on accepting yourself.  You are the only "you" that you have. It is in your best interests to be the best you can be. Until you love yourself, you will not be able to love anyone else. You can only love another to the degree that you do yourself. 


Thank you

                                           Amal M Rajan

                                          Bsc. Mathematics 

                                          20UMAT3720


                  

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