LOVE YOURSELF AND BE THE WAY WHO YOU ARE .SANDRA.T ( SOCIOLOGY DEPARTMENT)

Sandra.T

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B.A Sociology.

 "How others see you is not important . How you see yourself means everything" this phrase should be carved in both our mind and heart. We all have a tendency to devalue ourselves. We always look up on what we are lacking instead of what we have. Some people always degrade them by saying that they are talentless while some whines over their appearance. Even me too whined over my appearance . But we all have to remember one thing that there might be many people around us to discourage and bully us. But we can't stop them from being mean and bad to others like this by arguing .The only way to prove them wrong is to prove ourselves right ,to prove who we are and what we can do with what we have. 

If people didn't value you it doesn't mean that you are worthless. No one can understand us better than ourselves. In the eyes of others you might be lacking physical beauty,talent or anything but it's you who should decide whether to accept you as who you are and to move on with confidence or to whine over other's opinion and hold back. We all have to remember that our lives aren't that cheap or worthless to let it go when someones says to do so. Its our life and it is us who makes our life beautiful and worthy.

What is beauty? What is worthy? What is 
perfection? The answers to all these questions vary from person to person and it can't be defined. That is the reason that we can't be perfect in everyone's eyes. Getting acknowledged by people around us is great but being acknowledged by ourselves is the 
greatest. The most hardest thing is to love ourself. Accepting ourselves in the way we are is the simplest way to achieve a difficult step to most of us which is to love ourself. No matter where you are from, your gender identity , your skin colour  just speak yourself , Love yourself and conquer your dream.
'Never judge a book by its cover' . Among those who are around  us there are many beautiful  people with a warm heart , limitless talent/ potential,those who work day and night for others, those who take care of people around them and the matter is that they all are precious,worthy,beautiful and they are the ones who the world needs the most.


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